You were strong enough to survive love.
Now learn to thrive in it.
I help high-achieving women break emotional self-bondage, master boundaries, and finally feel safe choosing love by learning to choose themselves first.

La Toyia Conway-Hampton is a nationally recognized Motivational Speaker, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor, Certified Healing Life Coach, and Community Cultural Broker.
For over 25 years, she has transformed pain into purpose — and systems into sustainable healing solutions.
But today…
As La Toyia the Love Coach, her focus is clear:
Helping powerful women who survived toxic love finally build secure love.
You’ve built a career.
You’ve raised the children.
You’ve stabilized your life.
But love?
Still feels uncertain.
Still triggers old wounds.
Still pulls you into patterns you thought you outgrew.
You don’t need another inspirational quote.
You need:
Emotional clarity.
Boundaries that hold.
Peace that stays.
Love that feels safe.
That’s where this work begins.

As a child, La Toyia endured years of trauma and abuse.
Instead of allowing that story to define her, she chose to redefine it.
She became the voice she once needed.
The advocate she once searched for.
The safe place for women navigating domestic violence, addiction recovery, court systems, and identity loss.
She went on to found Two Lifestyles, Inc., a trauma-informed nonprofit organization in Los Angeles County that has partnered with DCFS and community agencies for over two decades.
Through reunification services, domestic violence intervention, fatherhood engagement, and leadership development, she has helped hundreds of families heal, rebuild, and reunify.
Today, she stands not as a victim — but as proof that healing is possible.
After decades of crisis work, she noticed something powerful:
Many women had survived the chaos…
But we're still surviving in love.
They were successful.
Financially stable.
High-achieving.
Yet emotionally:
Still overgiving.
Still settling.
Still afraid to choose themselves first.
That’s when La Toyia stepped into her next evolution.
Not just crisis recovery.
But conscious love.
You are not a caterpillar.
You are already strong.
R E C L A I M
Break emotional self-bondage.
Restore self-trust.
Choose yourself first.
R E B U I L D
Upgrade boundaries.
Raise standards.
Rewrite your love story.
R E I G N
Build a secure partnership.
Maintain peace.
Lead with joyful confidence.
Trauma does not cancel destiny.
Accountability is an act of love.
Boundaries are protection — not punishment.
Healing is a leadership decision.


A wife of over two decades
A mother of nine
A grandmother
A CEO
An author
A woman who chose to break cycles
She doesn’t just empower women.
She crowns them.
And she reminds every room she enters:
You are not what happened to you.
You are who you choose to become.
You survived.
© 2026 La Toyia The Love Coach DBA of La Toyia Conway-Hampton LLC. All rights reserved.
© 2026 La Toyia The Love Coach DBA of La Toyia Conway-Hampton LLC. All rights reserved.